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26 October 一不小心八卦了一下说实话, 她好不好我也不想评价, 但是的确没有资格跟丽明比. 2月份回重庆的时候还听朋友说在大都会阿丽与爱得餐厅里看到魏和腾在那里吃饭, 我还很羡慕呢, 谁都知道他们在一起多般配. 想不到几个月时间变化这么大... 当然鞋子合不合脚只有自己知道, 别人的议论只但但建立在从肤浅的外表上. 我想这么多付面的舆论他也过得不开心吧, 还有他的新女友, 一个平凡的大学生一下子成为焦点, 而且是各种责骂声, 一个二十岁的女生有多大的承受能力. 如果他真的喜欢她也该为她想想吧. 我不喜欢听到别人骂重庆女生, 当然本来他们也没有资格, 骂人的人自己的素质也有问题, 她做什么事情也没碍着任何人. 试问如果魏俊杰猛烈追求一个20来岁的平凡女生, 有多少能够断然拒绝他? 人不是圣贤, 谁都向往更舒适的生活. 所以一竿子打翻一船人只能说明挥竿者的无知和鲁莽. 只能感叹这世界上除了老妈谁都靠不住, 老爸都有可能是假的, 谁让男人留种那么轻而易举呢?他们制造下一代的能力理论上说是女人的几千亿倍吧. ANYWAY, 所以人一定要独立啦, 特别是女生.
不过腾丽明给我们的启发是女强人不好当, 就算在外面风光了, 回家接着给老公洗衣做饭当贤妻良母, 男人还是堵得慌. 因为邻居的白眼, 朋友的玩笑, 哪怕本来说的话跟他八竿子挨不着, 但他绞尽脑汁都要跟自己扯上关系, 说白了, 就是自己过不了自己这关, 没有办法接受女人比男人强.
最后总结一下, 也就表达我的观点而已, 没有要大家一致赞同: 要想有一个幸福或者至少是和谐的家庭, 女人就不要太强, 但要至少经济上要独立. 要做女强人就不要指望家庭有多美满幸福, 因为前者是你说了算, 但后者有50%不在你的掌控之中, 这个世界毕竟是男人主导的世界. 换言之, 男人也不要觉得你境界高到目空一切, 没有这个心理承受能力也不要去招惹比你能干的女人, 毕竟被人介绍和称呼XXX的先生不会是很爽的事情. 23 August Beauty ContestI saw a poster about a beauty contest few days ago in my uni, I stoped and had a brief read of it, of course I was not interested in participating; however, just wanted to find out what kind girls they are looking for. (Since there are countless similar activities like this in China as well as Australia such as SuperGirls, HappyBoys, many singing competitions in Sydney every year)….I guess originally American Idol was the first program that leads a trend of those competitions, however, that is really a great idea because it inspired Chinese TV producer to grab the potential commercial opportunity to gain huge amount of profit from youth who are dreaming about becoming a superstar someday. All right, back to our topic, the theme of the contest is smart and beautiful, what the ads emphasised is “We are looking for someone who is smart with intelligence, looking is not essential or precondition of the candidates.” Oh, that's fair enough, it seems giving out more opportunities to girls who don’t have a outstanding appearance, as long as you have brain, you could also be the potential winner. Another requirement is candidates have to be a female uni student aged 18-28. What’s the point of that? I have no idea…maybe because it is organized by a University society, but still doesn't make sense to me. I met someone who is a member of the society, and asked when and where is the competition be held, I want to go and see what's the process as well as if the candidates are smart or intelligent to fulfil my curiosity. She persuaded me to participate it actively, why was that? Not enough people? Definitely there is no point for me to participate, although I believe I am smart, but without a perfect looking: not tall enough, not skinning enough, and not pretty enough, I would not show off myself in front of people in this way. Honestly speaking, I personally have a negative impression of those beauty contest, could be jealous from a natural sense of female if I have to find a excuse for myself. Anyone have any idea that what's the point of join this contest? Due to the scale, the content (No idea what it is), the judges (Also no idea)?……Apart from winning prize (a $1200 laptop), is there any further opportunities to sign a contract with any media firm? Or become a model something?? Just didn't see any sponsors that are related to this entertainment industry so far…. Remember there is cost for registration, transportation and maybe clothes expenses. I am not judging or criticizing the contest or the candidates, what I would like to find out is the value will be received from the contest. We don’t do things that waste time or without any purposes, do we?
19 August 我的处女作今天不知道哪跟经不对了,居然想起来弄我的SPACE. 本人一向比较落后,对高科技产品没什么SENSE, 所以说虽然好多朋友早就在写BLOG了, 我确一直没这个兴趣和精神, 不过说实话也不知道怎么弄,呵呵^^ 对于21世纪的年轻人来说我非常的OUT OF DATE了.也不知道应该说些什么, 先把以前的照片传了上来,一个因为我的HARD DRIVE不停的坏,现在已经用第三个了(
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